Sunday, January 27, 2008

Birthdays and Celebrations




Well it was my birthday on Friday and Mercy was a little down and then I realized it was also her 2 year anniversary of her accident. I told her I thought of it not as a bad day but as a day to remind her how far she had come and that what man meant for evil, God meant for good. So we all went out to eat with some dear friends who watched Grace while I was in Liberia. As they wished me a happy birthday I told them that it was also a day of celebration for another reason...that Mercy and Joy were alive and it was a day to thank God for His amazing work in each of our lives.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Scopes

Tuesday's scopes turned out to be an all day event. We started with a 3AM feeding for Joy as it was her last food she could have prior to surgery and then Mercy at 4AM. We left the house at 5:45 and arrived at the hospital at 7AM sharp! They began preping Joy and gave her some "Happy Juice" to relax her before they wheeled her out of my site. Then about an hour later (she was only scheduled for 30 minutes) they told us she was in recovery. The doctor came out and told us that they got the scope to go down but then it stopped into a "pocket". Just above that pocket it looks like her esophagus did a 90 degree reroute. He tried for a long time to get the instruments for dialations to go into that 90 degree hole and just as he was about to give up, down it went. Thank you Lord! He was able to then dialate some.
We have another barrium study scheduled on Monday for Joy to see if we can get a better understanding of the damage after that 90 degree turn. The radiologist was worried about it's irregularity. They are not sure if the original barrium studied that showed that area to be pencil thin for about 2-3 inches was actually that or that the barrium was not able to pass that turn in large amounts making it seem to be thin.
They then wheeled Mercy in next. We went to recovery to see Joy and she was pretty groggy coming out of it. We were expecting Mercy soon as she was scheduled for an hour in the OR due to replacing her G-tube as well. Dan left with Joy so she could go to sleep at home. After about 2 hours I was beginning to get a little worried. The doctors assistant nurse came out and told us they were having trouble getting anything to go down her or up through her g-tube. The doctor had called in his partner away from his patients and he tried to no avail and then they called down the Pediatric Gastro doctor away from his patients. All three of them tried and tried and they could not figure out how on earth she could possibly be eating. But because we had told them how much she ate they kept trying. When they finally brought her out about 1:30 PM the doctor told me they were not able to get the thinist of wires in and it baffeled them all. He told me he would need to think about what the best solution would be after consulting with some other doctors and after the next barrium study for Joy. I told him I would from now on tell Mercy I was the only one allowed to empty her spit cup so we could see what was really going down to give him a better picture.
When Mercy came to, she asked if they were able to dialate and I told her no, that the opening was too small, she began to cry and cry. I'm sure she felt defeated and that this was the last possibility for her. I explained that this was only the beginning and we had to give the doctors time to figure out the next step. I told her it was actually a good thing in the sense that because the doctor can not do dialations that now the insurance HAS to approve her replacement surgery. Dialations could take a year or two for her to be able to eat regular food but with replacement surgery she might be able to eat by summer!
We left there by 3PM and got home by 4PM a tad exhausted to say the least.

She has gained 17 lbs since Dec 10th and is looking much healthier! Perhaps surgery will be just around the corner. We will see what our doctor comes up with for a plan of action.

Friday, January 11, 2008

Update on the Update!

They're on! Well at least the current insurance and everything is a go for their surgeries on tuesday. I should be getting a call from the prior insurance today to see if it got added to make last years claims since they arrived. Thank you Lord! And thank you all for your prayers!

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Update and Prayer Request!

We went to the pre-op meeting monday and discussed tuesdays surgery. We decided not to do surgery yesterday for two reasons: 1. The right sized G-tube they were to put in Mercy did not arrive but they had a smaller one but would probably leak for a few days till the skin could close around it. (Yuck, not thanks!) and 2. (this is a big prayer request) Dan's employer has still not gotten them on the insurance! They promised me back on Dec 20th that it would be done by the next day the 21st and back dated effective Dec 10th when they arrived, but it wasn't. This Monday I saw they finally got them added as dependents on the employers website but they send off that info electronically and it still had not been processed by the insurance companies. We are also needing them to get them post-dated back to December 10th when we did all their preliminary doctors visits. However, we had one insurance up until Jan 1st and are now on another. Since we are not dealing with the one any more they may not get them added so we can file those earlier claims.

We have rescheduled for next tuesday the 15th assuming they are on insurance and they don't pull any surprises like "Oh, there is a 180 day waiting period on adoptive children"!

As if adoption isn't enough paperwork, now I have to fight with insurance agencies and benefits department. Keep in mind that in order to deal with each of these people I have to go through 10 minutes each (OK exageration but not by much) of telephone prompts "If this is medical...press 1, if this is" And my blood is boiling by the time I finally get to someone cause all I want is a human being to talk to!!! And the benefits department, because they just switched insurance is slammed and all you can do is leave a message and hope they get back to you within 4 days! URRRGGG! This is stretching me as a christian and I must say "flesh" is surfacing ALOT!

JUST PRAY!!!