It is with great excitement we announce the referrals of our two Liberian angels, Mercy and Charlesetta whom my little Skylar has named Joy. My daughter now wants to be called Grace (her middle name) and spelled it on her own today. (See photo) The other word is an animal she liked most. How can you argue with phonics?
We have learned much about Mercy as her medical condition is fragile. She will turn 13 next month and weighs only 47lbs. We accepted her referral today so she was moved into the guest house of Acres of Hope where she will get the watchful eye of the guest house host who is a nurse. She will be started on IV's and we are hoping we can stabilize her condition and get some nutrients in her. She is well aware of the fact she may not make it through the adoption process and wants to fight to stay alive as she wants to live "to tell others about Jesus!" She is on a feeding tube and has had one dilation. She is a caustic ingestion victim. The story she told was that in January of this year, some "mean" boys secretly poured out her water bottle, filled it with lye (a clear liquid), watched her drink it and ran off laughing. Patti (founder of Acres of Hope) gave her a copy of her book and she then told Patti later "Next to the Bible, it was the best book she had read!" Her mother lives out in the bush and she has been living with her uncle in Monrovia for medical treatment.

Charlesetta (Joy) too is a caustic ingestion victim and her accident occured in 2004 when she was 5 or 6. She will turn 8 on November 20th two weeks after our Grace turns 8 and we already call them "The Twins". She is 41.5" tall and weighs 29lbs. A little peanut! For contrast to Joy and Mercy, Grace is 55lbs and 50.5" tall. Her mother knows she will die there without proper treatment and that adoption is her only option and has to give her up to save her life.
It is very common for younger children to ingest lye. It is a bleach like liquid used for laundry/cleaning and usually stored in soda bottles (thus called caustic soda) and set outside due to it's fumes. Children come along in the 100+ heat think it is water and start drinking.
The Medical Options:
1. Slow, steady dilation's, once a week or so for the first 3-6 months, to gradually increase the size of the esophagus to get them to a point to be able to eat solid foods.
2. Esophageal replacement. A piece of the colon is used to replace the esophagus.
There are two schools of thought on replacement:
1. It should be the last resort as it is permanent and if it doesn't work, what do you do?
2. It should be done right away to avoid further scaring in the esophageal tract and also because there is a 300-400% higher chance of esophageal cancer due to the intense damage sustained.
UNM Hospital's Pediatric Surgery unit seems neutral and will begin assessment once they are both here and able to be seen where a plan of action can begin.
Joy is not as bad off as Mercy but still in urgent need of medical care and because of that, Acres of Hope is going to try to expedite both their paperwork. Best case scenario if all the processes go like clockwork (which it never does) we are looking at bringing them home the end of next month possibly early November. We are hoping no later than Christmas. Normally on non urgent cases, from the time of referral the process takes 4-7 months.
Our prayer requests:
1. Mercy would gain strength and weight and Joy will stay strong.
2. Pray that Mercy and Joy can begin to bond before we get there as they will now be sisters.
3. Paperwork to miraculously go like clockwork and parental relinquishment's would go smoothly as this has become the biggest issue with the American Embassy's new Consular who issues the American visa's.
4. For God to prepare Grace for the different world she is about to encounter and that she would feel loved and secure as we pour so much of our energy into these two angels as we get them healthy.
5. Since all this is happening relatively fast we are not as prepared financially. We know when God gives a vision, He makes the provision. We look forward to seeing how He will provide! We trust Him and know He has called us to adopt these two precious angels.
"For this child I prayed" 1 Samuel 1:27
Let the journey begin!!!





13 comments:
Joy,
I would love to talk with you, I met Mercy while I was in Liberia and she touched my heart so much!
I have some great stuff to tell you. Please email me!
Jocelyn Tarquini (adopted Isaac)
storitelr@yahoo.com
Tama,
We have lifted you and your family up tonight and will continue to lift you up every day. Please tell your little Grace that she is already a wonderful middle sister!
We are so blessed to be able to be on this journey with you!
We are so eager for you to have these sweet hearts home, we will be praying them home quickly!
Love,
Katy
Oh, and I love the right side of your blog! I love how you define such powerful words and such testimonial names!
Your girls are beautiful! Oh what stories Mercy will have about her life in Liberia! We will pray for a super fast process so you can get them home!
Congratulations!
Christina
christinaslittlecorner.blogspot.com
Congratulations! All three of your girls are absolutely beautiful. I just love their names. What precious gifts from the Lord.
We will be praying that Mercy and Joy continue to thrive while in Liberia and are home with you very soon!
In Christ,
Melissa Arnold (AOH family)
I am so excited and so thankful for your family. I have been telling everyone about you and your decision to adopt these girls. You are making a gutsy decision, knowing that God is on your side, and I can't WAIT to see all His work unfold in your life!
I'm so happy for all of you, and for the "refining" that you are about to go through.
THREE girls!!! WOW!!! You're in for a lot of fun. I'm so happy, thankful, and excited for you all!
- Amy
Tama,
I have been gone the last couple days and came home to find wonderful news waiting in my computer's inbox -- Wow, I am incredibly blessed and so happy for you and the girls. Peter and I have had such a heart for Charlesetta... We've prayed for her often and actually thought seriously about adopting her -- but didn't feel the release to proceed. We are thrilled she has a home... and not just any home, but the one she was meant to have!! I am so glad Mercy has a home too. Wow... it just amazes me how God leads people who are willing. I appreciated everything you have shared about your journey to the girls -- both here and on the group forum.
We are all on this crazy, unknown journey together and I am so grateful for that!
May God speed you through the paperwork to bring the girls home swiftly. You will be on our minds and in our prayers. (your mother is as well... )
Blessings to you!!
Amber
Um, have I told you how cute your kids are? Have I told you how proud I am of you? I love the faith journey you have taken and am humbled and amazed that you allowed me to watch a bit of the journey. I am SO thrilled for Mercy and Joy to have a family like yours. Praise the Lord!!!!
I love you guys!
Brandi
oh yeah, and your shrek comment on the yahoo group! How stinkin' funny are you!!! LOVE IT!!! I laughed aloud and had to read it to Greg!
Love you,
Bran
TAMA!!! I can see I missed a lot by going out of town this weekend! How exciting for you!! I wept as I read the story of Mercy. God is about to take you on an amazing journey!! I'm so excited for you and will be praying for you all the way through it!!
Love,
Darbi
(still waiting and praying...)
I have been spending alot of time with Mercy, and she is a wonderful girl. Congratulations!!
Love,
Charity
WOW I just found your blog and am in awe at the girls courage.
I pray this process is fast for you guys and goes smooth.
We just started the adoption process of a little boy in Haiti!
You guys are wonderful! The girls are beautiful. Can't wait for you to get them home!
Jamie
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